The cancer caregiver serves a critical role on the journey to recovery. Often times it's a family member who takes care of the patient. Read how Jacqueline helped her father through Stage 3 Prostate Cancer.
“First thing I want to do is get the right steps and know the best options to treat my father,” she said.
But her caregiver duties had an even more difficult task. She needed to maintain a cool composure despite deep worries.
“The second thing going through my mind was…how to calm my father down in order to decrease his stress and anxiety.”
As the cancer patient, Baba became depressed. He faced a double layer of confusion because of the language barrier. He needed more time to comprehend his diagnosis.
“So my role was to calm him down,” Jacqueline said. “Decrease the effect of the news and just keep him positive.”
The cancer caregiver tried to paint a more upbeat picture.
”Prostate cancer is not as deadly as pancreatic cancer,” Jacqueline explained to Baba. “And prostate cancer grows slow. And we will operate the next day. And the recovery is better unlike other cancers.”
Under the grave situation, Jacqueline became a fortress against emotional turmoil. She needed to tone down the fear and sadness expressed by family members.
“Sometimes the stress of the family members is higher than the patient,” said Jacqueline.
“They don’t understand the situation and how it should be handled. So sometimes the family members cause the patient to be stressed, because they become overreactive.”